Guys/Gals-How many sexual partners is too many?

[Anonymous]

Had a conversation with some gal friends the other day about how many men we have had sex with over our lives. If you were becoming serious about a woman how many partners do you consider "too many" or a "slut"?

Just curious. My husband has been with a lot of women..use to bother me but not any more http://www.cafepharma.com/ubbthreads/images//graemlins/smirk.gif

[Anonymous]

No more than 2. You fucking whores.

[Anonymous]

I'm 42 and have been with about 100 since age 15.. Is that too many? How about compared with guys of similar age? Remember, that's 27 years of sex so about 4 partners per year avg.

[Anonymous]

anything over 250

[Anonymous]

This isn't one size fits all! Some people would be upset if it were more than five or ten; others might not blink at a hundred. However, people who have been with a lot like to say "well I was single for a long time so that is only four per year" or whatever. That doesn't float! Just because you feel comfortable spreading for anything with pants, do not assume that everyone feels that way. For me, it wouldn't matter if a partner could say that she was only with three people per year, on average, if she was single for 30 years; 90 is 90 any way you slice it!

[Anonymous]

I never ask, I am a guy, I have been with my fair share. Why ask? Does me no good knowing and I lay it out like that. Don't ask me either. As long as she is faithful and disease free and I get along with her. Again, I repeat, I never ask, who am I to judge her past. I judge her from the time I met her up util the time we are together. Would you agree? Or am I way off for not worrying about her past?

[Anonymous]

Why does it matter. Sex is Sex. We are a couple looking for a bi female or a select male to join us on a regular basis. Our preference is for a F. Phone screens and bio required. Respond if interested.

[Anonymous]

Any chick over 25 that claims that 4 per year bullshit is a total slut...period. It's usually they fucked 20 a year for a few years, then had a long-term boyfriend and cheated on him on occassion.

A slut is a slut is a slut. You can't make a ho a housewife.

These are all maxims to live by my fellow bros.

[Anonymous]

What if he or she is married? How many lovers are too many? Is there a double standard with male and female cheaters? Guys, is it ok to fuck someone else's wife but not ok for someone to fuck yours? Girls, is it ok to fuck someone else's husband but not ok for someone to fuck your hubby?

[Anonymous]

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I'm 42 and have been with about 100 since age 15.. Is that too many? How about compared with guys of similar age? Remember, that's 27 years of sex so about 4 partners per year avg.

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Can't count the same pu$$y more than once!!!!

[Anonymous]

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What if he or she is married? How many lovers are too many? Is there a double standard with male and female cheaters? Guys, is it ok to fuck someone else's wife but not ok for someone to fuck yours? Girls, is it ok to fuck someone else's husband but not ok for someone to fuck your hubby?

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Agreed. Sex is sex, it's normal. We are human animals and have attractions. There is not much that you can do about that. If my wife wanted to fuck other guys, I don't have a problem. Let's do it together, so we can both enjoy it. Swingers are some of the coolest, most laid-back people I have ever met.

[Anonymous]

girl here....33 YO and probably about 120 partners...I LOVE SEX!

[Anonymous]

I become quite frustrated with the double standard of men being able to have triple digits and women are "sluts" if they do the same. I even catch my husband falling into the saying and it pisses me off.

I guess it's the reason why men continue to have higher salaries than women http://www.cafepharma.com/ubbthreads/images//graemlins/mad.gif

[Anonymous]

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I become quite frustrated with the double standard of men being able to have triple digits and women are "sluts" if they do the same. I even catch my husband falling into the saying and it pisses me off.

I guess it's the reason why men continue to have higher salaries than women http://www.cafepharma.com/ubbthreads/images//graemlins/mad.gif

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no, we are just smarter

[Anonymous]

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I become quite frustrated with the double standard of men being able to have triple digits and women are "sluts" if they do the same. I even catch my husband falling into the saying and it pisses me off.

I guess it's the reason why men continue to have higher salaries than women http://www.cafepharma.com/ubbthreads/images//graemlins/mad.gif

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Yes there is a double standard and its too bad. Too bad that most of the judging of women come from other women. Guys don't care how many girls his buddy has been with nor do I care how many guys a girl "friend" of mine has been with. Until you women stop judging eachother you may just have more than one or two girlfriends. I bet most women that come here have more guy friends than girlfriends.

[Anonymous]

To OP: Do you mean at once, all at the same time, or over a long period of time, like a week or so?

[Anonymous]

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To OP: Do you mean at once, all at the same time, or over a long period of time, like a week or so?

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OP here. Over a long period of time.

[Anonymous]

Well if you want to be happy and have a healthy relationship than one is the right amount of partners. If you don't care about either and have no moral compass in your life I guess the sky is the limit for number of partners. Just remember all things we do that are wrong catch up to us sooner or later. Whether in this life or the next.

[Anonymous]

sheesh...thanks for the bible beating!!

[Anonymous]

What is interesting about someone screwing or dating 100 people is their inability to find someone compatable, or to commit. I don't care if someone has 200 sex partners if that is what they want but think having had so much variety they would be unsatisfied with one person.

[Anonymous]

Guy here..mid 30's. I've had about 80-90 partners since losing my virginity at 13. Many one-niters in college, with the Trojan used as a longtime friend. After all, when you sleep with someone, you're sleeping with everyone else that person has been with. If I could do it over again, I would've sought out more 3-ways with 2 girls....chicks are more open to that now than in the 80's/early 90's.

[Anonymous]

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Any chick over 25 that claims that 4 per year bullshit is a total slut...period. It's usually they fucked 20 a year for a few years, then had a long-term boyfriend and cheated on him on occassion.

A slut is a slut is a slut. You can't make a ho a housewife.

These are all maxims to live by my fellow bros.

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oh god shut the fuck up you moron

[Anonymous]

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Any chick over 25 that claims that 4 per year bullshit is a total slut...period. It's usually they fucked 20 a year for a few years, then had a long-term boyfriend and cheated on him on occassion.

A slut is a slut is a slut. You can't make a ho a housewife.

These are all maxims to live by my fellow bros.

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oh god shut the fuck up you moron

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As a man, I love sluts. They're usually much better fucks and horny as much as I am.

[Anonymous]

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Any chick over 25 that claims that 4 per year bullshit is a total slut...period. It's usually they fucked 20 a year for a few years, then had a long-term boyfriend and cheated on him on occassion.

A slut is a slut is a slut. You can't make a ho a housewife.

These are all maxims to live by my fellow bros.

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oh god shut the fuck up you moron

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As a man, I love sluts. They're usually much better fucks and horny as much as I am.

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Okay, so you are alright with marrying one? Or are we talking about dating?

[Anonymous]

Guys are funny because they want the slutty/hooker type to screw but want to marry a virgin. What's up with that shit?

[Anonymous]

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Any chick over 25 that claims that 4 per year bullshit is a total slut...period. It's usually they fucked 20 a year for a few years, then had a long-term boyfriend and cheated on him on occassion.

A slut is a slut is a slut. You can't make a ho a housewife.

These are all maxims to live by my fellow bros.

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oh god shut the fuck up you moron

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As a man, I love sluts. They're usually much better fucks and horny as much as I am.

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Okay, so you are alright with marrying one? Or are we talking about dating?

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Either. If she gets to fuck other guys, I get to fuck other women. Or, watch her do it.

[Anonymous]

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Guys are funny because they want the slutty/hooker type to screw but want to marry a virgin. What's up with that shit?

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Not me. I want to marry a girl that knows her way around a dick.

[Anonymous]

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Well if you want to be happy and have a healthy relationship than one is the right amount of partners. If you don't care about either and have no moral compass in your life I guess the sky is the limit for number of partners. Just remember all things we do that are wrong catch up to us sooner or later. Whether in this life or the next.

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Are you stating that it is wrong to have a lot of sexual partners? I would disagree. I've met quite a few "players" that were assholes. On the flip side there are people that do it tactfully and show women respect. Sounds too good to be true but both types are in the scene.

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[Anonymous]

From a married female's perspective, "too many" would be the one after me.

Of course, I am about to divorce him, so I guess it won't matter anymore.

I have never understood this question. What woman would claim anything over 4 or 5 and what man would claim anything less?

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[Anonymous]

From a married female's perspective, "too many" would be the one after me.

Of course, I am about to divorce him, so I guess it won't matter anymore.

I have never understood this question. What woman would claim anything over 4 or 5 and what man would claim anything less?

I am a virgin except for my wife and that doesn't count. Bounce on my big belly. You will never go back to the 20 year old cock I promise, will you ride me or flash your tits at least?

[Anonymous]

From a married female's perspective, "too many" would be the one after me.

Of course, I am about to divorce him, so I guess it won't matter anymore.

I have never understood this question. What woman would claim anything over 4 or 5 and what man would claim anything less?

Females should "say" 3. No more, no less. How many partners can they have? As many as it takes to satisfy them.

Males? No limits.

[Boogalou Shrimp]

Why are you people responding to a thread from 2004? There is a guy that gets off on bringing these back!

[Anonymous]

Had a conversation with some gal friends the other day about how many men we have had sex with over our lives. If you were becoming serious about a woman how many partners do you consider "too many" or a "slut"?

Just curious. My husband has been with a lot of women..use to bother me but not any more http://www.cafepharma.com/ubbthreads/images//graemlins/smirk.gif

Any more the your spouse you are a slut

[Anonymous]

No such thing as too many!

[Anonymous]

Guy here..mid 30's. I've had about 80-90 partners since losing my virginity at 13. Many one-niters in college, with the Trojan used as a longtime friend. After all, when you sleep with someone, you're sleeping with everyone else that person has been with. If I could do it over again, I would've sought out more 3-ways with 2 girls....chicks are more open to that now than in the 80's/early 90's.

I'm 30 and have had about 25partners since starting at 17. My numbers are low compared to most of my friends but I had more girlfriends than them.

Anyway, I feel you on the 3some (w. 2chicks). I'm married now and won't cheat but SHIT, if a 3some came my way under good circumstances, I'd definitely consider it

[Slartybartfast]

Thats the nice thing about having something regular on the side.

You don't waste time in bars trying to make a pickup,
You both know why you are there,
You both are having fun,
She knows how to do the prostate massage thing that you like when you cum.

Life can be sweet.
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[Duke Lacrosse]

They say that when you have unprotected sex with someone, its like having sex with all their former partners. Since I was pulling caboose, I guess we can start with two black hookers and the entire Duke Lacrosse team.

The Dukester.