Do women realize just how horny men really are?

[Anonymous]

I for one could jerk off seven days an week and have sex on top of rubbing one off seven days a week and still I'd be horny. It seems women might get horny once or twice a week why are guys so much hornier than women???

[Anonymous]

My husband isn't. Maybe he is but just not for sex with me.

[Anonymous]

So, do guys stay horny for the same woman year after year and never get tired of the same sex with the same partner. I know they like strange or different partners but what about the same ol same ol. Do they get tired of that?

[Anonymous]

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My husband isn't. Maybe he is but just not for sex with me.

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Sorry to hear about that...I'm sure someone like myself or someone else would want to take care of your needs!

[Anonymous]

Never get tired of any sex same ol or not! We can still get a good mind thing going while we rub one out and it is not always our wife or GF we are thinking of. I'd say I fantisize about my wife 40% when whacking but it is always a fantasy about something she has never done with me thats why it's called a fantasy.... If more women were more experimental and willing to get a lot more kinky less men would whack off thinking about other women duh....

[Anonymous]

Women, male here, here's the absolute truth about men; if you can understand this you'll know everything you need to know about men. If you can't understand this you'll never know any man:

"What would almost every man say is their most memorable, satisfying, pleasureable sexual experience, the one that makes you glad you're alive, the one that makes you appreciate and respect women, the one you will remember for the rest of your life??"

ANSWER: The next one.

[Anonymous]

Ha! So I guess having a man stay in lust with just one woman his whole life is a damn fantasy, huh?

[Anonymous]

No, you're missing the point. I never said a man looks forward to his next sex with a different woman. It could be the same woman for 50 years; in fact fidelity is very sexy. The point is that it's the NEXT time that's important, like an auctioneer who's always looking for the next bid. ie., quality is great, but it's all about the next encounter.

[Anonymous]

Well, I try to give it up every 2 days. I want to keep my man satisfied.

[Anonymous]

New poster here, my husband hasn't wanted sex in over a month! I'm going crazy!

[Anonymous]

If men and women could only pick one of the following: sex OR intimacy, almost all men would take the sex and almost all women would choose intimacy. We're just different that way.

[Anonymous]

I am a woman and I have plenty of intimacy with my husband but hardly any sex. He never wants it. 5'3' 120. So its not my appearance. Wish I knew how to get him started up!!!

[Anonymous]

I think like the male poster, it is always what he will get next and feel if he is doing, even if he isnt doing you. I believe women want just as much when all the pieces are there. However, when I am tired and the choice is bad/unfulfilling sex or sleep....I take the rest!!!

[Anonymous]

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I am a woman and I have plenty of intimacy with my husband but hardly any sex. He never wants it. 5'3' 120. So its not my appearance. Wish I knew how to get him started up!!!

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If you make him feel inferior/belittle him at any time, I promise he won't bang you. Also, if you are best friends and hang out all the time, men find it hard to bang their best friends. Keep some distance and some mystery from him and you'll get poked soon enough. Also, the body isn't everything to a man. He marries the face and fucks the body. If your face is getting too wrinkly and your neck (most women neglect this and it's a total turnoff to a guy, saggy wrinkly neck) is too, he will be turned off. Mostly from sun damage, so stay out of the sun!

[Anonymous]

To the woman whose husband doesn't seem to want her: don't forget, men like/need romance, too. Romance him the way you would want, but from a male perspective. When was the last time you really listened to him? I've had lots of attention from some very wealthy women, but the reason my wife stole my heart is because she didn't neglect the little things. For example, I fly radio controlled model airplanes, and it meant more to me that she bought me a $2.00 propeller, the right size because she had listened to what was important to me, than if she had bought me a $20,000 boat. This is not an exaggeration, I had that opportunity with a well-known actress who pursued me for awhile, but she tried to win me with her wallet. Not all men are shallow, self-absorbed jerks...at least not most of the time.

[Anonymous]

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I am a woman and I have plenty of intimacy with my husband but hardly any sex. He never wants it. 5'3' 120. So its not my appearance. Wish I knew how to get him started up!!!

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I don't have to do a thing to get my guy started up-he's naturally horny..all day..every day. A good thing & I'm thankful. We're a good match.

But if I had to get him *started up*, I'd probably start with a massage. I'd gently rub his shoulders & upper arms..proceed to his chest and rub his pecs, kiss his nipples..have him lift his arms and rub gently under there. Kiss his neck & gently suck on his earlobes. I'd run my fingers through his hair gently at first & then more firmly. I'd go back over his upper chest & then lightly massage over his hips & belly. That kind of thing where he's getting all relaxed. Of course I'd tell him he can't touch me..not yet. Create a caring, sensual, teasing mood & see where it leads..think of your guy more than yourself when you're looking to get him started.

[Anonymous]

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I am a woman and I have plenty of intimacy with my husband but hardly any sex. He never wants it. 5'3' 120. So its not my appearance. Wish I knew how to get him started up!!!

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I hate to tell you but your man is finding relief somewhere - either by himself (watching porn, etc.) or with someone else. Normal, healthy men need regular release. Just stating simple fact.

[Anonymous]

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To the woman whose husband doesn't seem to want her: don't forget, men like/need romance, too. Romance him the way you would want, but from a male perspective. When was the last time you really listened to him? I've had lots of attention from some very wealthy women, but the reason my wife stole my heart is because she didn't neglect the little things. For example, I fly radio controlled model airplanes, and it meant more to me that she bought me a $2.00 propeller, the right size because she had listened to what was important to me, than if she had bought me a $20,000 boat. This is not an exaggeration, I had that opportunity with a well-known actress who pursued me for awhile, but she tried to win me with her wallet. Not all men are shallow, self-absorbed jerks...at least not most of the time.

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You are a dork. (model airplanes..) Plus, what well known actress would ever chase after a dork like you. Not the ones you wack off to on the internet either lame boy!

[Anonymous]

I'm a woman and that is funny!

[Anonymous]

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To the woman whose husband doesn't seem to want her: don't forget, men like/need romance, too. Romance him the way you would want, but from a male perspective. When was the last time you really listened to him? I've had lots of attention from some very wealthy women, but the reason my wife stole my heart is because she didn't neglect the little things. For example, I fly radio controlled model airplanes, and it meant more to me that she bought me a $2.00 propeller, the right size because she had listened to what was important to me, than if she had bought me a $20,000 boat. This is not an exaggeration, I had that opportunity with a well-known actress who pursued me for awhile, but she tried to win me with her wallet. Not all men are shallow, self-absorbed jerks...at least not most of the time.

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Yeah dude, seriously...I think you're probably gay.

[Anonymous]

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I am a woman and I have plenty of intimacy with my husband but hardly any sex. He never wants it. 5'3' 120. So its not my appearance. Wish I knew how to get him started up!!!

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Why don't you say, "Hey - would you like a blow job, honey? Then put your hand on his cock and get it out, tease him a bit and start in. If that doesn't do it - then there's a REAL problem........

[Anonymous]

OP here, I think I may have confused some people with my problem. I have no problem getting my husband to have sex when I initiate it. But if I never initiated it he would never show any interest. What do you think thats all about. My husband never starts it. He just goes along with me when I do, at least most of the time. Sometimes he flat out turns me down.

[Anonymous]

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To the woman whose husband doesn't seem to want her: don't forget, men like/need romance, too. Romance him the way you would want, but from a male perspective. When was the last time you really listened to him? I've had lots of attention from some very wealthy women, but the reason my wife stole my heart is because she didn't neglect the little things. For example, I fly radio controlled model airplanes, and it meant more to me that she bought me a $2.00 propeller, the right size because she had listened to what was important to me, than if she had bought me a $20,000 boat. This is not an exaggeration, I had that opportunity with a well-known actress who pursued me for awhile, but she tried to win me with her wallet. Not all men are shallow, self-absorbed jerks...at least not most of the time.

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You are a dork. (model airplanes..) Plus, what well known actress would ever chase after a dork like you. Not the ones you wack off to on the internet either lame boy!

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LMAO...I was thinking the same thing http://www.cafepharma.com/ubbthreads/images//graemlins/laugh.gif

[Anonymous]

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I am a woman and I have plenty of intimacy with my husband but hardly any sex. He never wants it. 5'3' 120. So its not my appearance. Wish I knew how to get him started up!!!

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Why don't you say, "Hey - would you like a blow job, honey? Then put your hand on his cock and get it out, tease him a bit and start in. If that doesn't do it - then there's a REAL problem........

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Great now this is PORN site. Cafe Pharma, are you reading this crap?

[Anonymous]

OP, man here. Is he unusually stressed? Getting enough vitamins? Drinking a little too much? Depression, perhaps? Maybe he's being treated for depression with SSRIs (can KILL libido!) and hasn't confided in you? I'd look at the physiologic problems first, cause you sound like you're probably a MILF!

[Anonymous]

To the above poster. I found out 7 years into the marriage that he was sexually molested as a young kid by a male, older cousin. He has never told anyone but me about this. I think this has affected him in some way. He is very manly with no gay tendencies so I don't know. I have no complaints in the sex department when we do have it, except we hardly ever do.

[Anonymous]

OP, Male here. He's stressed out! I usually want sex three times a day and now Im happy with three times a week because my mind is so tied up with other issues. Sometimes I dont care so much as to make love with my gf, I just want to get offI know Ill get back to my old ways but need some time to get my life back on track. I know somethings wrong with me because lately I cant last more than 15-20 minutes where a few weeks ago, I could go all night. My libido has taken a dive.

[Anonymous]

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So, do guys stay horny for the same woman year after year and never get tired of the same sex with the same partner. I know they like strange or different partners but what about the same ol same ol. Do they get tired of that?

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This is the all time biggest reason guys usually want out of relationships. No matter how good looking or initially attacted we are to women, we almost always(after being with them for a while) get used to it and ultimately the spark is gone.

Hence the quote: "For every Heidi Klum, their is a guy out their who is probably sick of sleeping with her"

[Anonymous]

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OP here, I think I may have confused some people with my problem. I have no problem getting my husband to have sex when I initiate it. But if I never initiated it he would never show any interest. What do you think thats all about. My husband never starts it. He just goes along with me when I do, at least most of the time. Sometimes he flat out turns me down.

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That was my first dh. I think he was gay. Seriously I do. He never started and there were times he refused me. And I was built like a brick shit house and had lots of offers and sex before & after the marriage broke up. He was into himself & working out, dressing and his looks. Some call that Metro, I call it GAY.

[Anonymous]

Man I totally agree with the OP. I NEED to ejaculate at the LEAST once a day but usually a.m. and p.m. is best. The bad part is my wife only wants sex 2 maybe 3 times a week. My hand is getting really tired!!

Regards,

Another Hyper Sexual Male

[Anonymous]

My wife at least give me a HJ before bed each night.

[Anonymous]

I am female and I could care less how horny you men are!

[Anonymous]

I am female and I could care less how horny you men are!

That's because you're a lesbian--now beat it PAT!!!!

[Anonymous]

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To the above poster. I found out 7 years into the marriage that he was sexually molested as a young kid by a male, older cousin. He has never told anyone but me about this. I think this has affected him in some way. He is very manly with no gay tendencies so I don't know. I have no complaints in the sex department when we do have it, except we hardly ever do.

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He is damaged goods. He has deep seeded sexual hangups that will last FOREVER. Either deal with it and maybe get him help or work through it together OR get the hell out and find a man who will "complete" you.

[Anonymous]

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To the above poster. I found out 7 years into the marriage that he was sexually molested as a young kid by a male, older cousin. He has never told anyone but me about this. I think this has affected him in some way. He is very manly with no gay tendencies so I don't know. I have no complaints in the sex department when we do have it, except we hardly ever do.

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He is damaged goods. He has deep seeded sexual hangups that will last FOREVER. Either deal with it and maybe get him help or work through it together OR get the hell out and find a man who will "complete" you.

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Plus, 7 years into the marriage? His silence about such an important thing is grounds for divorce. You should have no guilt for dumping him. He apparently has no guilt for misleading you into a marriage. Anyway you look at it, he's mess.

[Anonymous]

Women DO realize how horny men are. We just don't care.
Get in line and take a number.

[Anonymous]

How horny are men?

Well, I divide women into two groups:

1. Mothers and Sisters

2. Women I might have sex with

[Anonymous]

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New poster here, my husband hasn't wanted sex in over a month! I'm going crazy!

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See you at the NSM honey. http://www.cafepharma.com/ubbthreads/images//graemlins/smile.gif

[Anonymous]

Women want it just as much as men. Women just dont talk about it as much!

[Anonymous]

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I am female and I could care less how horny you men are!

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Yeah because you're a fur trading Dike!!!!!

[Anonymous]

I want sex as often as you are willing plus my as often as my other girlfriend will give it up. That usually takes care of my urge.

[Anonymous]

Men who talk or post about sex all the time = dull, annoying, beta, and impotent

Men who shut the hell up and use that desire to give women pleasure = rule

[Anonymous]

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I am a woman and I have plenty of intimacy with my husband but hardly any sex. He never wants it. 5'3' 120. So its not my appearance. Wish I knew how to get him started up!!!

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Why don't you say, "Hey - would you like a blow job, honey? Then put your hand on his cock and get it out, tease him a bit and start in. If that doesn't do it - then there's a REAL problem........

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Screw asking him, unzip his pants, go down and start SUCKING. If he doesn't LOVE that, dump the fucker and write back to me !!!!!!

[Anonymous]

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OP, Male here. He's stressed out! I usually want sex three times a day and now Im happy with three times a week because my mind is so tied up with other issues. Sometimes I dont care so much as to make love with my gf, I just want to get offI know Ill get back to my old ways but need some time to get my life back on track. I know somethings wrong with me because lately I cant last more than 15-20 minutes where a few weeks ago, I could go all night. My libido has taken a dive.

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Have her take some thread, tie it around your nut sack, then make a little bow. Leaving it there, have her take a ruler, bend you over and give you a bun blistering spanking. That will get the blood rushing below the belt. Then when you're feeling all 'tingly', have her untie the bow while sucking you off - stopping before you come, you will insert your bad boy and then fan her fur for at LEAST a good hour.

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I am a woman and I have plenty of intimacy with my husband but hardly any . He never wants it. 5'3' 120. So its not my appearance. Wish I knew how to get him started up!!!

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LISTEN UP: My husband just went in for a physical. I had the same problem and I begged him to get his testosterone level checked. Would you believe it came back and he was very LOW!!! If you saw my husband, you would never think he wasn't Macho Man. The pharmacist told us this is very common and that many men probably have the problem but don't have it checked. My husband is now using this testosterone gel every day so I am hoping things change http://www.cafepharma.com/ubbthreads/images//graemlins/grin.gif He was blown away and kind of embarressed by it, but it should help him feel better in addition to helping his libido.

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Women want it just as much as men. Women just dont talk about it as much!

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Women do NOT want it as much as me. Most women can not have sex 30 times a week every week. My wife sure doesn't. "I'm too sore..." That is why I have 2 girlfriends on the side to take up the slack. Plus some whacking it.

[Anonymous]

Some women do have their head up their butt but they do know how horny men are. I like how they get upset when they find out their man is getting some on the side when she is only giving it up without bitching once a month. The take home message for the women is to learn to just spread your legs unless you are content with a man that fools around.

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

Some women are too! I am a woman and think about sex all day...which has made me completely addicted to my vibrator. I probably masturbate 2 to 3 times a day. My favorite fantasy is having a threesome with a man and a woman...although I would probably never do it in real life.

[Walking Eagle]

Well, I try to give it up every 2 days. I want to keep my man satisfied.
IF you are just "giving it up" as a chore, you are doing it wrong. Find a way to relight you own passion for your man. Make it a true love making romp in the hay, not just the Friday night fuck.