Attn: Guys. Question about female oral???

[Anonymous]

I need a man's perspective on this. I have a new lover, but he won't do oral on women. He had one bad experience about 5 years ago and hasn't done it since.
Is there anything I can do or say that will get him to go down on me? I'm willing to be his tutor. I thought about getting a book and reading through it together to help with the self confidence/ self-esteem.
Any good advice guys??? Please....I need some help and need some good head.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you need to move on. Too many other men would be willing to take care of your needs without you even asking. Unless he ran into one with teeth and got bit, what the hell could have happened that would account for his 5 year absence?!?

[Anonymous]

OP here. He won't really tell me what happened. I just wish that he liked giving head as much as I love giving him head. I've tried to get him to understand that's its as pleasurable for us as it is for men...And he knows how good that feels.
I'm finding this a strange situation since most men I've had in the past can't get their faces out of my crotch and love doing it. Oh well...maybe I will have to move on.

[Anonymous]

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Sounds like you need to move on. Too many other men would be willing to take care of your needs without you even asking. Unless he ran into one with teeth and got bit, what the hell could have happened that would account for his 5 year absence?!?

[/ QUOTE ] I think you missed the point--he will recieve, but he will NOT GIVE. The question is basically right , though, what the hell happened to make him stop eating pussy?? Bad smell? Chunks from eating too soon after a period or pregnancy? Ejaculating pussy gush in his mouth? Somebody farted or had a dirty ass? Find out what happened and assure him you are different if indeed you are. Don't lie to the guy--could turn him off pussy eating forever.

[Anonymous]

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Sounds like you need to move on. Too many other men would be willing to take care of your needs without you even asking. Unless he ran into one with teeth and got bit, what the hell could have happened that would account for his 5 year absence?!?

[/ QUOTE ] I think you missed the point--he will recieve, but he will NOT GIVE. The question is basically right , though, what the hell happened to make him stop eating pussy?? Bad smell? Chunks from eating too soon after a period or pregnancy? Ejaculating pussy gush in his mouth? Somebody farted or had a dirty ass? Find out what happened and assure him you are different if indeed you are. Don't lie to the guy--could turn him off pussy eating forever.

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If he hasn't had a slice of pie in 5 years, I am pretty sure he quit already!

[Anonymous]

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OP here. He won't really tell me what happened. I just wish that he liked giving head as much as I love giving him head. I've tried to get him to understand that's its as pleasurable for us as it is for men...And he knows how good that feels.
I'm finding this a strange situation since most men I've had in the past can't get their faces out of my crotch and love doing it. Oh well...maybe I will have to move on.

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Reminds me of an old joke. Guy won't go down, girl asks why? He says his mother said women have 'teeth down there'. She hikes up skirt w/ no panties and says, "See? No teeth!" Guy leeans back and says, "No wonder, your gums look awful".

Anyway, whatever the reason, dump the fucker unless you like being the giver w/ no reciprocal.

[Anonymous]

Show me a man who won't eat his woman's pussy and I'll show you a woman I can have!!

[Anonymous]

he's gay.

[Anonymous]

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I need a man's perspective on this. I have a new lover, but he won't do oral on women. He had one bad experience about 5 years ago and hasn't done it since.
Is there anything I can do or say that will get him to go down on me? I'm willing to be his tutor. I thought about getting a book and reading through it together to help with the self confidence/ self-esteem.
Any good advice guys??? Please....I need some help and need some good head.

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Okay, female perspective here, and mind you, this is only one possibility.

I dated a great guy in college--he was smart, gorgeous, funny, and we had a great time together. But when it came to sex, he would go down on you for a minute, and then he would stop, saying that he got too aroused while doing that. And he loved to receive; he just had problems going down on a girl for any length of time.

We eventually broke up (amicably, and for other reasons), and when I was speaking to a mutual friend a few years later, she told me that he was really struggling with his sexuality. He had finally reached the point where he could admit that he was gay, but he couldn't imagine telling his family (particularly his father) that he was. It was one of those "Aha!" moments where everything made sense in retrospect (and not just the oral sex thing).

He was (and still is, I'm sure) a wonderful person, and I only hope that he was able to come to terms with what was a very difficult thing for him.

Anyway, I am sharing this, because you may want to consider the possibility that your current beau is struggling with the same thing. Just a thought.

[Anonymous]

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OP here. He won't really tell me what happened. I just wish that he liked giving head as much as I love giving him head. I've tried to get him to understand that's its as pleasurable for us as it is for men...And he knows how good that feels.
I'm finding this a strange situation since most men I've had in the past can't get their faces out of my crotch and love doing it. Oh well...maybe I will have to move on.

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Here's what you do. Invite an old lover that you still get along with over. Brief him on the situation and gain his agreement to help. When the new guy cums over for a night of fucking, you tell him up front: This is Rob (or insert name), he is going to show you what I really like. He will assure you that I taste great. Either he stays out of curiousity, on how to do you right or he leaves. Either way you win. And perhaps so does Rob (or insert name). Hope that this helps.

[Anonymous]

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I need a man's perspective on this. I have a new lover, but he won't do oral on women. He had one bad experience about 5 years ago and hasn't done it since.
Is there anything I can do or say that will get him to go down on me? I'm willing to be his tutor. I thought about getting a book and reading through it together to help with the self confidence/ self-esteem.
Any good advice guys??? Please....I need some help and need some good head.

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Okay, female perspective here, and mind you, this is only one possibility.

I dated a great guy in college--he was smart, gorgeous, funny, and we had a great time together. But when it came to sex, he would go down on you for a minute, and then he would stop, saying that he got too aroused while doing that. And he loved to receive; he just had problems going down on a girl for any length of time.

We eventually broke up (amicably, and for other reasons), and when I was speaking to a mutual friend a few years later, she told me that he was really struggling with his sexuality. He had finally reached the point where he could admit that he was gay, but he couldn't imagine telling his family (particularly his father) that he was. It was one of those "Aha!" moments where everything made sense in retrospect (and not just the oral sex thing).

He was (and still is, I'm sure) a wonderful person, and I only hope that he was able to come to terms with what was a very difficult thing for him.

Anyway, I am sharing this, because you may want to consider the possibility that your current beau is struggling with the same thing. Just a thought.

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After you said the three key words (smart, gorgeous, funny), I didn't have to read any further. A man can be one of these three or two of these three, but if he's all three, he is definitely gay, especially the gorgeous part. Ladies, there is a lessson here. That average looking guy, perhaps bald, a little too hairy (actually it's me), is your best candidate as a lover. He (I) will worship your pussy with his tongue until you cannot stand it anymore. He wants you on top of him, grinding on his face until you explode. He also wants you squirt your juices in his mouth and will gladly accept them at any time and thank you for the experience. Word ladies.

[Anonymous]

Well said my bald, hairy borther.

[Anonymous]

To the OP
Unless you have a history with this guy that tells you he is being open, my guess is he has never done it and does not want to do it. As long as you keep blowing and fucking him, he has little reason to get adventurous.

I think you need a little quid pro quo here. From now on, blowjobs s/b a 69 proposition. With you on top.

[Anonymous]

Here are the options:


a) He is really gay

b) You have an odor problem and he doesn't want to hurt your feelings

c) He did such a bad job at it before and a previous girlfriend laughed at him (giving him a complex)

d) He doesn't want to eat at the same table that has been frequented by a bunch of other guys.

[Anonymous]

To OP you must understand from a guys point there is alot of bacteria down in the vagina. Some woman have more than others. Many times it smells like fish. Would you like to eat bacteria that smells like fish? I don't think so.

[Anonymous]

jees...i eat ass and everything else....what gives w him....put a strapon on and if he goes down....dump him...hes queer

[Anonymous]

If its an oder problem, take a shower first and see what happens.
Ask him to shave your muff to get started.
And if he goes down town...moan, squirm, and yell your head off to encourage him more.
Oh...and clean out the poop shoot and the mud valve too!

[Anonymous]

Going down and eating pussy seems normal...looks like a taco to me!

[Anonymous]

Oh this ones easy.. Get rid of that dang sheep your smuggling in your pants! Shave your muff and I bet 10 to 1 he goes down! Guys don't like licking pubic hair period!!!!!!!

[Anonymous]

Just the opposite here! The more hair . . . . the better! Love the hair up to the navel and on the legs. It's the ladies that can't wear swinsuits in the summer because of their hair that are the turn-ons. You can tell by a woman's eyebrows . . . . . . . . . the heavier the eyebrows the hairier she is and vice versa. http://www.cafepharma.com/ubbthreads/images//graemlins/grin.gif

[Anonymous]

When I was in the Navy, I worked with a guy that would get physically sick at the thought of oral sex, either way. Never knew what his wife thought of that.

Nothing like a conservative christian upbringing to narrow your world.

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When I was in the Navy, I worked with a guy that would get physically sick at the thought of oral sex, either way. Never knew what his wife thought of that.

Nothing like a conservative christian upbringing to narrow your world.

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This guy was a liberal atheist...not a christian.

[Anonymous]

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When I was in the Navy, I worked with a guy that would get physically sick at the thought of oral sex, either way. Never knew what his wife thought of that.

Nothing like a conservative christian upbringing to narrow your world.

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Hmmm, let's see. The guy was in the Navy and couldn't stand the thought of oral sex? I'm going to go out on a limb here and guess...GAY????

[Anonymous]

OP here. Thanks for the input. I'll talk with him again and see what we can compromise on.
I know that I don't smell and I'm not hairy (get brazilian waxed), so I'm taking this personally. I'll chalk it up to his past "bad experience". I just thought I'd try to do something to boost his confidence in hopes that he would try it. Thanks for the replies. http://www.cafepharma.com/ubbthreads/images//graemlins/laugh.gif

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OP here. Thanks for the input. I'll talk with him again and see what we can compromise on.
I know that I don't smell and I'm not hairy (get brazilian waxed), so I'm taking this personally. I'll chalk it up to his past "bad experience". I just thought I'd try to do something to boost his confidence in hopes that he would try it. Thanks for the replies. http://www.cafepharma.com/ubbthreads/images//graemlins/laugh.gif

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What the fuck...tell him to eat you or walk. Only a fag doesnt want a pussy in his face.....boost your confidence and find a man that will worship your meat curtains...