I know my Area VP slept with a rep

Should I tell HR or just leave it be?

Are they married or single? Be careful, HR will bite you in the ass every time!

The Area VP is married with 3 kids and the rep is single.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Should I tell HR or just leave it be?

If you're the rep the VP slept with, who do you think the HR folks will protect? Get a settlement and run.

If you're not either of the involved parties, there's no upside for you to get involved. HR will protect the bigwig (at worst, there have been cases of corporate leaders getting canned for improper behavior, but I'll bet you lunch that a nice parting gift was in the deal). And you're going to be tagged as a tattle-tale, with a nice big target on your back the next time the corporate axe-catching contest is played.

Why do you care and why is it your business?

This happens more than you know in our industry. It is called "working your way up the corporate ladder". She is actually on of the smarter women in the industry. She or he was just sloppy and got caught either leaving their cells laying around for the "wife" or "husband" to see (dumbass didn't protect himself) or (let people see them going into or out of rooms together) or (made voicemail call from her or his company paid room and then had his wife do the expense, again how stupid) but in the end she will have the job security. She can claim she was sexually harassed or forced to do things for her job...and if they remain together she will have it made...promotions, extra time off, raises, you name it...kudos to her. I just hope for her he is a performer, nice looking, nice build, smells good. Trying putting up with the opposite for 2-3 years. Man boobs, scabs, skid mark man (must not wipe too good), can't perform (that turned to be a good thing), heavy drinker, again a good thing in my case...you get the PICTURE!!!

Originally Posted by Anonymous

This happens more than you know in our industry. It is called "working your way up the corporate ladder". She is actually on of the smarter women in the industry. She or he was just sloppy and got caught either leaving their cells laying around for the "wife" or "husband" to see (dumbass didn't protect himself) or (let people see them going into or out of rooms together) or (made voicemail call from her or his company paid room and then had his wife do the expense, again how stupid) but in the end she will have the job security. She can claim she was sexually harassed or forced to do things for her job...and if they remain together she will have it made...promotions, extra time off, raises, you name it...kudos to her. I just hope for her he is a performer, nice looking, nice build, smells good. Trying putting up with the opposite for 2-3 years. Man boobs, scabs, skid mark man (must not wipe too good), can't perform (that turned to be a good thing), heavy drinker, again a good thing in my case...you get the PICTURE!!!

Yeah, but what about their families? There is so much more to it!

They don't think about those things until its too late. They think they will never get caught and some don't. Then those that do either suffer and lose more then they ever realized. Their home, their spouse, their kids, some even lose their career and it haunts them and it follows them because people know about it and they talk. The big losers are the innocent children who lose the parent and if their old enough to know whats going on they are disgusted and may never want them in their life again. You should all stop thinking of yourselves. If your that unhappy, get a divorce so you can at least keep your kids in your life.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

They don't think about those things until its too late. They think they will never get caught and some don't. Then those that do either suffer and lose more then they ever realized. Their home, their spouse, their kids, some even lose their career and it haunts them and it follows them because people know about it and they talk. The big losers are the innocent children who lose the parent and if their old enough to know whats going on they are disgusted and may never want them in their life again. You should all stop thinking of yourselves. If your that unhappy, get a divorce so you can at least keep your kids in your life.

it is amazing that men just are not smart enough to jerk off when they are horny in these situations...
and women need to get out the vibrators in these situations, as they are more dumb and use their pussy for gain more than men use their pricks for anything other than ego trips.

We us our mouths and ass too...plus our phones with our text messages and pictures can go a long, long way...you never know...our future careers mean a lot to us...we sacrifice and its harder for a woman to get promoted on hard work alone these days...gotta do some acting along the way...it makes us sick sometimes...others are a pleasure, but it gets us to the top.

hahahaha....

This happens too much. I know a rep at Genzyme slept with few guys in industry and out industry and shes married, 2 kids, and husband leader at GSK. Sad and true and end result to save marriage for the children. Sad life to live!

Yep, its happens more then you know...VP's sleep with Regionals, Sr. Vp's, sleep with DM's they promote...and so on and so on...

Being a DM and sleeping with my Area Director then being promoted to an Area Director and sleeping with my old boss that became my equal. Sleep your way up the ladder!

Why not just become a high class escort? You would probably make more money!!!!

Originally Posted by Anonymous

This happens more than you know in our industry. It is called "working your way up the corporate ladder". She is actually on of the smarter women in the industry. She or he was just sloppy and got caught either leaving their cells laying around for the "wife" or "husband" to see (dumbass didn't protect himself) or (let people see them going into or out of rooms together) or (made voicemail call from her or his company paid room and then had his wife do the expense, again how stupid) but in the end she will have the job security. She can claim she was sexually harassed or forced to do things for her job...and if they remain together she will have it made...promotions, extra time off, raises, you name it...kudos to her. I just hope for her he is a performer, nice looking, nice build, smells good. Trying putting up with the opposite for 2-3 years. Man boobs, scabs, skid mark man (must not wipe too good), can't perform (that turned to be a good thing), heavy drinker, again a good thing in my case...you get the PICTURE!!!

Hey, it's skank again. Sleeping with a married man to get ahead at work. Now you are alone and bitter and she will forgive him, wives know how you skanks really are. Now your entire company/industry knows and you still give it up to the next guy down the ladder because you are just 3 holes, nothing else. And you are going to hell. AHHHHH Karma.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

hahahaha....

Karma already got you. You will go nowhere and everyone hates you. You were 50% of the problem, if that does not keep you up at night, knowing you helped wreck the kids lives, then you are a very bad person who will get what "it" has coming.

But, what if you were a rep who was downsized because the manager kept a much lower ranked rep instead because he was sleeping with her?

Originally Posted by Anonymous

But, what if you were a rep who was downsized because the manager kept a much lower ranked rep instead because he was sleeping with her?

You'd better be able to PROVE it. Not innunedo, but proof. Pictures would be nice.

You wouldn't get your job back (and you probably wouldn't want it), but it might be worth a nice settlement if you have a mean enough lawyer.

Move on is probably the best policy. Don't expect "The Man" to worry about the little guy in the trenches; at best, you're a bit more important than some machine in the factory.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Should I tell HR or just leave it be?

Its people like you that ruin the POA's.

Oh so and so hooked up in the hottub, so and so got drunk, wah wah wah wah.

fuck and let fuck

Call the wife of the area VP manager directly and then call HR to report him. Let the wife kick him in the balls first, then let him lose his job and see how he feels then. Damn men will never learn to keep it in their pants. That's what Jergens is for.

so what happens if they fall in love and end up getting married, can they still work for the same company in their same postions?

what are his initials? I may have info...

Stay out of thier business; it's not your issue dumb ass....

Originally Posted by Anonymous

We us our mouths and ass too...plus our phones with our text messages and pictures can go a long, long way...you never know...our future careers mean a lot to us...we sacrifice and its harder for a woman to get promoted on hard work alone these days...gotta do some acting along the way...it makes us sick sometimes...others are a pleasure, but it gets us to the top.

You are a slut of the highest order. What an idiot; is this the best plan you can think of to get promoted? Why would you stay with a company if this was the only way; you are a dumb ass!

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Call the wife of the area VP manager directly and then call HR to report him. Let the wife kick him in the balls first, then let him lose his job and see how he feels then. Damn men will never learn to keep it in their pants. That's what Jergens is for.

Nice plan you self centered bitch. Now you screw the wife again by cutting off a source of income; real smart. Maybe this will also screw the kids too. Great idea...

Originally Posted by Anonymous

what are his initials? I may have info...

This message is about UsLabs. The rep is in the southwest, the AVP in Tulsa.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Should I tell HR or just leave it be?

Its none of your fucking business, get a life. People fuck around so what!!!

unless you were in the room with them how do you know

I must be naive. Not in pharma sales but you hear these stories and this shit seems to run rampant in pharma. Seriously how often does this happen? would really like an honest answer. Half the time i think its bs. I personally would be mortified If I did this and people found out. Is it because pharma reps are usually good looking? Im a female; most pharma rep guys are pretty good looking and until recently every pharma rep sales woman ive seen has been thin, barbie looking, good looking and even if they are not good looking they are attractive; more attractive than the general population. Always wanted to get into pharma sales is that how you get in? fuck or blow someone?

This shit is hilarious. What a bunch of useless reps that need to sleep their way up the ladder. If you can't sell, you can't sell - period. So you resort to sleeping with the manager, and get a promotion over someone who really deserves it. So then the rest of us have to put up with your useless ass as our manager. Well, maybe your ass isn't that useless...

Wow, great thread. I agree with the very first response. Anyone that says something to HQ if not one of the parties involved will be a HUGE target. LMAO. People cheat. Get so over it. You would be surprised how many that you think are left at home clueless, absolutely know what their partner is up to, some even encourage it for various reasons. You, my little, busy body, moral police need to mind your own business. End of story. Frankly, if I was younger, you bet I'd sleep my way up. Wish I knew then what I know now.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Wow, great thread. I agree with the very first response. Anyone that says something to HQ if not one of the parties involved will be a HUGE target. LMAO. People cheat. Get so over it. You would be surprised how many that you think are left at home clueless, absolutely know what their partner is up to, some even encourage it for various reasons. You, my little, busy body, moral police need to mind your own business. End of story. Frankly, if I was younger, you bet I'd sleep my way up. Wish I knew then what I know now.

This sounds like my piece of shit father and the whore he still cares more about than any of us. I really can't stand when he is home or in the same room with any of us. Yes people cheat but to all of you that say that screw you! Our family is a mess because of it, we would rather have had a divorce first. My mother deserves better and can get much better than a man that was used for a job advancement. He looks like such an idiot and still, oh well who cares.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

This sounds like my piece of shit father and the whore he still cares more about than any of us. I really can't stand when he is home or in the same room with any of us. Yes people cheat but to all of you that say that screw you! Our family is a mess because of it, we would rather have had a divorce first. My mother deserves better and can get much better than a man that was used for a job advancement. He looks like such an idiot and still, oh well who cares.

Ah, the truth comes out. YOU have some personal issues to deal with and want to take it out on everyone around you who cheats. Get over it and for crying aloud go to anger management. No one cares. I don't care. HR does not care. Society does not care. People and a lot of people cheat. Many times the spouse DOES know and does not care, especially if it a non-working wife who does not want to have to pay bills all by her lonesome. Sounds like your father found the right gal for him. Many men wake up after marriage and children and realize they are stuck and should have gone for the whore instead of the "good" girl type. Hopefully, your mom learned to just move on and find someone more suitable to her (boring, ugly, religious, homebody, fearful, not a risk taker) but from your anger, I rather doubt that happened. Breaking up a marriage always destroys a family but only when the parties wanted to have that "dream" Leave-it-to-Beaver life. It is a TV show and no one's life is like that IN REALITY. I know of so many women who idolize their husbands and I know the guy is cheating. Most people want to have their cake and eat it to. Get over it. It is sex. We are the only country where infidelity is such a HUGE issue thanks to the funda-mentalists. You need to move on and forgive your father or you will carry this shit around inside you F O R E V E R. Go look at some porn and chill out.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Ah, the truth comes out. YOU have some personal issues to deal with and want to take it out on everyone around you who cheats. Get over it and for crying aloud go to anger management. No one cares. I don't care. HR does not care. Society does not care. People and a lot of people cheat. Many times the spouse DOES know and does not care, especially if it a non-working wife who does not want to have to pay bills all by her lonesome. Sounds like your father found the right gal for him. Many men wake up after marriage and children and realize they are stuck and should have gone for the whore instead of the "good" girl type. Hopefully, your mom learned to just move on and find someone more suitable to her (boring, ugly, religious, homebody, fearful, not a risk taker) but from your anger, I rather doubt that happened. Breaking up a marriage always destroys a family but only when the parties wanted to have that "dream" Leave-it-to-Beaver life. It is a TV show and no one's life is like that IN REALITY. I know of so many women who idolize their husbands and I know the guy is cheating. Most people want to have their cake and eat it to. Get over it. It is sex. We are the only country where infidelity is such a HUGE issue thanks to the funda-mentalists. You need to move on and forgive your father or you will carry this shit around inside you F O R E V E R. Go look at some porn and chill out.

YOU are so sick, "good girl type" "boring, ugly, religious, homebody, fearful" What a joke! Do you know this person? Pay bills by their lonesome? Maybe this mother works. Sounds like someone internalized a post. Too funny. Guilt getting the best of someone? I hope this mother ran on you buddy cause you sound like a piece of crap.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Ah, the truth comes out. YOU have some personal issues to deal with and want to take it out on everyone around you who cheats. Get over it and for crying aloud go to anger management. No one cares. I don't care. HR does not care. Society does not care. People and a lot of people cheat. Many times the spouse DOES know and does not care, especially if it a non-working wife who does not want to have to pay bills all by her lonesome. Sounds like your father found the right gal for him. Many men wake up after marriage and children and realize they are stuck and should have gone for the whore instead of the "good" girl type. Hopefully, your mom learned to just move on and find someone more suitable to her (boring, ugly, religious, homebody, fearful, not a risk taker) but from your anger, I rather doubt that happened. Breaking up a marriage always destroys a family but only when the parties wanted to have that "dream" Leave-it-to-Beaver life. It is a TV show and no one's life is like that IN REALITY. I know of so many women who idolize their husbands and I know the guy is cheating. Most people want to have their cake and eat it to. Get over it. It is sex. We are the only country where infidelity is such a HUGE issue thanks to the funda-mentalists. You need to move on and forgive your father or you will carry this shit around inside you F O R E V E R. Go look at some porn and chill out.

It is sex? I will let mom know that and that I did post on here and by the reply I am betting this is my pig of a father just by the reply and words above. I guess it wouldn't bother you if she just cheats on you, its only sex right?

Originally Posted by Anonymous

It is sex? I will let mom know that and that I did post on here and by the reply I am betting this is my pig of a father just by the reply and words above. I guess it wouldn't bother you if she just cheats on you, its only sex right?

Wow, you do need some anger management and probably a good lay. I hate to think of a kid who feels this way about a parent. I also feel sorry for any man you marry. Look out! Seriously, your hatred is going to eat you up inside. No, this is NOT your father posting. Good God, you are not only an angry busy body, but delusional as well. I could give a shit what my husband or anyone else finds for "freetime" sex as long as everyone is open about it and uses protection. I have absolutely no problem.

Cheaters are born and the sooner you realize that some people can never be with only one person the better off you will be. It is not my problem if some bonehead marries the wrong type of person. The theory is that if you marry outside of your own personal sociosexual nature, the marriage is doomed anyway. So, in other words, your parents' marriage would have ended anyway. No reason to call your father's new wife names or him and no reason to go after the 65 percent of married people who DO cheat and probably always will. It is reactions such as yours that keep all of us bascially in the closet. It is also not my problem if people lie. That is the problem - people not being honest and up-front from the get go, not the sexual fun outside of the primary.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Wow, you do need some anger management and probably a good lay. I hate to think of a kid who feels this way about a parent. I also feel sorry for any man you marry. Look out! Seriously, your hatred is going to eat you up inside. No, this is NOT your father posting. Good God, you are not only an angry busy body, but delusional as well. I could give a shit what my husband or anyone else finds for "freetime" sex as long as everyone is open about it and uses protection. I have absolutely no problem.

Cheaters are born and the sooner you realize that some people can never be with only one person the better off you will be. It is not my problem if some bonehead marries the wrong type of person. The theory is that if you marry outside of your own personal sociosexual nature, the marriage is doomed anyway. So, in other words, your parents' marriage would have ended anyway. No reason to call your father's new wife names or him and no reason to go after the 65 percent of married people who DO cheat and probably always will. It is reactions such as yours that keep all of us bascially in the closet. It is also not my problem if people lie. That is the problem - people not being honest and up-front from the get go, not the sexual fun outside of the primary.

Boy you are an ass, first I am his son. Second, my mom took him back after his sorry ass realized he made a mistake. My father left this stupid site open for all of us kid (now all almost all adults) to see and read post about him being seen by counterparts going in and out of rooms w/this company tramp. He is not married to the woman. He didn't us protection and put my mother at risk and I am posting on here for his ass to read, and he will so he knows we all hate his ass and can't stand seeing him when he is around. He is the biggest loser and so are you. I really don't care how many people cheat. Some do have morals.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Boy you are an ass, first I am his son. Second, my mom took him back after his sorry ass realized he made a mistake. My father left this stupid site open for all of us kid (now all almost all adults) to see and read post about him being seen by counterparts going in and out of rooms w/this company tramp. He is not married to the woman. He didn't us protection and put my mother at risk and I am posting on here for his ass to read, and he will so he knows we all hate his ass and can't stand seeing him when he is around. He is the biggest loser and so are you. I really don't care how many people cheat. Some do have morals.

So, how old are you? Seriously. That is some strange shit. If your mom took him back, why on earth are you still so damn upset over this? BTW, I am an ass and a whore and my husband loves it. It has nothing to do with morals unless you lie. Otherwise, it is about knowing what you like sexually and keeping with your own. I feel for you, especially if you are younger adult. People with kids should put their kids first. And. . . you need to forgive your father until you walk in his shoes.

Actually I don't care if you "feel" for me or not. I am now an adult and I will leave it at that. I can say I will never walk in my father's shoes, ever! Great to hear you and your spouse have no morals. I will never forgive my father and don't give me some reply about forgiving him. He made his choices. Yes, lots of choices to put others before us kids, missed too much. He chose others and other things over us and our activities growing up that includes his tramp. Won't be long till he screws up again I am sure, once a cheat always a cheat.

Look you're the one hanging on to this thread which is apparently a thread based on some childhood horror that you suffered because your dad cheated. I do feel for you but big hairy deal. That is small potatoes compared to what life can throw at you. You DO so need to move on. I would recommend you quit posting so that you can quit thinking about what a jerk you think your dad is. One thing you and I agree upon is that once a cheater always a cheater. That sort of was my point. I personally thought this was going to be a FUN thread for people to talk about sex. Apparently, I am mistaken as you want it to be your personal place to vent all that pent up hate. Too bad. Naughty sex is the best.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Look you're the one hanging on to this thread which is apparently a thread based on some childhood horror that you suffered because your dad cheated. I do feel for you but big hairy deal. That is small potatoes compared to what life can throw at you. You DO so need to move on. I would recommend you quit posting so that you can quit thinking about what a jerk you think your dad is. One thing you and I agree upon is that once a cheater always a cheater. That sort of was my point. I personally thought this was going to be a FUN thread for people to talk about sex. Apparently, I am mistaken as you want it to be your personal place to vent all that pent up hate. Too bad. Naughty sex is the best.

Not to jump in on your tit for tat converstation but did you ever think about having your naughty sex with you spouse? Your talking with someone about cheating? I have naughty sex with my husband a lot. We have kids. Try it, add spice to your marriage. You really don't need to cheat unless your scum.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Not to jump in on your tit for tat converstation but did you ever think about having your naughty sex with you spouse? Your talking with someone about cheating? I have naughty sex with my husband a lot. We have kids. Try it, add spice to your marriage. You really don't need to cheat unless your scum.

Honey, you are way out of your league on this one. What exactly do you think we are doing? From stories, to BDSM, to dress-up, to toys, to movies, to swinging, to porn - we pretty much do it all. LOL! I guess you could call that spiced up but some also might call us sick. To each his or her own I say. Look, I do not have kids and what we do as adults should be fine. I just have an issue with someone else inflicting their definition of morality on me and my choices. While I do not go for be dishonest, it happens. People should be loved for who they are and not have to change their very nature to be loved.

I love the movie Unfaithful...the wife actually screws around on the husband...think I am gonna have to try this bit of revenge next time he is away on a weekend trip...

Originally Posted by Anonymous

I love the movie Unfaithful...the wife actually screws around on the husband...think I am gonna have to try this bit of revenge next time he is away on a weekend trip...

Give us details.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Actually I don't care if you "feel" for me or not. I am now an adult and I will leave it at that. I can say I will never walk in my father's shoes, ever! Great to hear you and your spouse have no morals. I will never forgive my father and don't give me some reply about forgiving him. He made his choices. Yes, lots of choices to put others before us kids, missed too much. He chose others and other things over us and our activities growing up that includes his tramp. Won't be long till he screws up again I am sure, once a cheat always a cheat.

What company and what are his intitials?

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Actually I don't care if you "feel" for me or not. I am now an adult and I will leave it at that. I can say I will never walk in my father's shoes, ever! Great to hear you and your spouse have no morals. I will never forgive my father and don't give me some reply about forgiving him. He made his choices. Yes, lots of choices to put others before us kids, missed too much. He chose others and other things over us and our activities growing up that includes his tramp. Won't be long till he screws up again I am sure, once a cheat always a cheat.

Wow. You sound like a spoiled child. If you feel so strongly why not be a man and tell your father how you feel to his face. Or better yet, why not be the man you claim to be and stop driving the car he bought for you. I'm sure your father and mother provided pretty well for you, maybe too well that you feel entitled to judge and worse yet spill your guts on this forum. What kind of "son" comes on this cesspool board and posts stuff about his family? You have a lot of growing up to do boy.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Wow. You sound like a spoiled child. If you feel so strongly why not be a man and tell your father how you feel to his face. Or better yet, why not be the man you claim to be and stop driving the car he bought for you. I'm sure your father and mother provided pretty well for you, maybe too well that you feel entitled to judge and worse yet spill your guts on this forum. What kind of "son" comes on this cesspool board and posts stuff about his family? You have a lot of growing up to do boy.

Who said he bought me a car? Boy aren't you feeling a sense of guilt? and why would that be? Is it your actions? I never mentioned a car? Maybe I worked and bought my own car? Sometimes guilt and lying will eat you alive.

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Who said he bought me a car? Boy aren't you feeling a sense of guilt? and why would that be? Is it your actions? I never mentioned a car? Maybe I worked and bought my own car? Sometimes guilt and lying will eat you alive.

Wow, you need some therapy. You have accused just about everyone on here of being "guilty." We are not feeling guilty. We are NOT your dad!!! We are however pointing out the obvious to YOU. You are the one that is being eaten alive, maybe not by guilt, but certainly by anger. You seriously cannot go through life this way and expect to function and interact normally. Go to therapy and figure out how to put this behind you. It is pretty bad that YOU felt the need to start an entire thread on something that happened so long ago in your past. Not sure what you're going through, but it ain't good.