Can we please get back to the topic of Viagra?

My husband has ED problems and takes it when he wants to have an erection and ejaculation. It's fine for him but he can't get it hard enough to enter me and give me a good ride so I can orgasm too. It's not difficult for me to orgasm so please no jokes here. Any suggestions? We've tried a lot of different things to keep him hard but he just can't hold on long enough to at least try to come inside me. I'm frustrated about this especially when I see commercials that show such 'happy' women and handsome rugged looking men that act so satisfied are annoying to me. I think Viagra is a one sided drug for HIS pleasure, not hers!

 

It's too bad they took down the thread about MILFs because there were a lot of experiences and situations that people were sharing to enhance their sexual lives.

 

Pfizer wants people to believe their drug is a panacea.

 

That's why we're sitting here on this chat board because we're so bored.

 

One word - vibrator.

 

Very true. Some people can't handle discussions that run counter to their moral beliefs.

 

I think we should ask, Honey, the plastic blow-up doll for an opinion. She said she had the same problem.

 

Oh for godsake. We have a chest full of everything imaginable. I want the feel of a real man, preferably him.

 

Sometimes I feel like Honey the blowup doll.

 

Even when written anonymously. Those people are welcome not to read anything that offends them. No one is forcing the moral police to read anything.

 

Serious reply here. Am over 70 and have used an injectable product which is very easy to use and not painful. It is made both by a Pharma company AND by a compounding pharmacy and covered (with a co-pay) by insurance. The secret is do NOT use the large bore needles provided with it, instead have him use 28 ga insulin syringes. If you are serious I will post the name (or web address of the compounding pharmacy I /we use. They also have sized constriction rings. My urologist prescribes all of this. I have longer lasting and better results than ever before. Oh also, do the injection 1st THEN take the Viagra.

 

It's been moved over to the Playground.

 

Are you saying you can actually have intercourse with this method? We have tried the injections and other devices, rings, pumps. I am a nurse and am good at administering. He gets results but not enough for intercourse. That is my frustration. The Viagra seems like a joke at this point even when we combine methods. He can’t sustain it for intercourse.

 

Yes, I can sustain it for intercourse, however, I did become refractory to the doseage I was using so my urologist upped the strength of the medication plus we have upped the amount. There are 2 higher strengths in case I become refractory to this one. The trick here is to find a urologist who isn't so conservative he won't try things. 2 injectables contain only Aloprostadil (Caverject and Edex). The following compounders make a mixture with 3 different ingredients and there are 4 or 5 strengths of it. You can also add one of their rings. http://www.ucprx.com/urology

The key is, he needs to find a URO who is an expert in this. I understand your situation. You need to find a solution and it sounds like you are working together. Also have you checked his testosterone levels? I was Low T and once I started adding Testosterone, I dropped from .8 cc of aloprostadil to .2 ccc and had a better erection. That was 5 years ago. Now I'm using a higher strength TriMix. There are 2 higher strengths after that but many UROS are chickensh*t to Rx them (my urologists's term there). I hope this helps. Your choices are 1) try every strength injection imaginable or 2) an affair - not what you want- or 3) oral and vibrator technique together or 4) an implant. If I end up there I will do it but saving that as a last resort. You can forget about the pumps - they are useless and awkward. Oh yeah, there's also a Sybian and we will look into it when the time comes. Good luck and so glad you are working together.

 

Talk about frustration. I just typed a lengthy and sincere response and it went up into the mod wind tunnel. Hopefully they will review it and allow it. If not, you'll have to establish an avatar a name and I will PM you, although there will likely be some cranks respondiong to that one.
2 thoughts for now:
1) Has he checked his testosterone levels? I was low T and supplementin DRASTICALLY improved my response to injections
2) Look at this site http://www.ucprx.com/urology

Glad you are working together - it means everything believe me.

 

OK, they went through. We tried one more thing that spiced things up. Please do not judge on this one. We actually hooked up with a very reliable female escort in her early 50s and very attractive. We had several relaxing 3 hour sessions with her. The turn on was amazing and aroused us both. We have decided to have her 'visit' us each year on our anniversary or on a birthday. She made a suggestion that we go to a reputable erotic store and buy the best strap on they have. We haven't bought it yet but we may. Once in awhile when nothing else works and he ejaculates before you do, what the heck? The hardest part is actually byuying the damn thing. After that it's just the 2 of you. Hey, whatever works and have fun.

 

Thank you for your honesty in response. That is all good information and should be made available to everyone. I bet there are more than a few people on this thread now who have found this a common interest.

1) As I said, I am a nurse and well versed in all the options. His T counts are all in a good range (not even normal low) because we supplement. We have tried the timed release pellets and he likes the results the best, although there is a sore butt factor there! The shots are unpredictable for him, especially when there is alcohol involved and although he has cut down we both still enjoy a drink or two pre-coital attempt. He uses the cream sometimes toward the end of a cycle. I have access to a lab and we have experimented at different times under different circumstances checking levels.

We have tried one of the injectables at a pretty high dose that you mentioned and as I said before, combined with the Viagra he is able to get a good enough erection but can’t seem to get beyond the oral. I’m curious though about the Tri Mix and will be looking into it immediately! He has a pretty good urologist who works with us and would be willing to let us try anything not detrimental to his health which is pretty good.

2) An affair? Don’t think I haven’t thought of it for my own selfish reasons. I don’t think an escort would be something I would like to try but am open to new sexual experiences which could include a woman or a man. My husband is definitely not into men though. I guess I’d be on my own for that which I don’t think is fair but I don’t want to threaten his masculinity which is pretty fragile these days.

3) Lots of oral and toys in our bedroom (and other places)

4) We have talked about an implant as a possibility also and know the risks and the importance of being together on this procedure for the duration.

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5) I am one of the anon posters who saw the old thread get moved to the playground just as it was becoming informative. I did start an avatar and made one post but honestly some of the people there are extremely insensitive and like to make a big joke out of everything.

 

I saw that avatar and 'may respond to it'. You sound like the ultimate understanding partner. From what I was told, the implant is VERY painful for 2 weeks then the pain goes away. I also asked. 'Can I ejaculate?' to which the answer was, "If you could before, you will be able to. Still - a 90% chance of success/ 10 % chance of failure. I would only do this with a partner who sounds as genuinely loving and sincere as you.

 

So what makes you become refractory? Isn't that the same as building up a tolerance? How far can you go?

 

I'm not sure - sounds the same but he used the term. Honestly" For 8 years I used 2 ccs of Edex 20 mcg and had an incredible erection which one girlfriend said 'got her off 3 X in one session. Then things waned. My current partner and I are working on it. She is very
understanding, creative and imaginative. We shall see.