Abuse

1Sunshine · #1 02-27-2011, 09:24 PM

I hesitate to write this because no one will believe me. He came after me tonight in the office and the kitchen, didn't hurt me, but the threat is always there.

Yet to most, I live this perfect life. I just want to be free, but cannot afford to leave. Have to take care of others. Has anyone else felt so trapped?

Man For All Seasons · #2 02-27-2011, 09:45 PM

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Originally Posted by 1Sunshine

I hesitate to write this because no one will believe me. He came after me tonight in the office and the kitchen, didn't hurt me, but the threat is always there.

Yet to most, I live this perfect life. I just want to be free, but cannot afford to leave. Have to take care of others. Has anyone else felt so trapped?

Start getting some help and advice. Contact some resources in your area to help you cope with this. You really cannot afford NOT to leave. Patiently and quietly plan a strategy to get yourself and your kids (I'm assuming) out of that situation. You've got to see that he gets some help if he's ever going to be worth living with. Otherwise get away and stay away from him.

1Sunshine · #3 02-27-2011, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Man For All Seasons

Start getting some help and advice. Contact some resources in your area to help you cope with this. You really cannot afford NOT to leave. Patiently and quietly plan a strategy to get yourself and your kids (I'm assuming) out of that situation. You've got to see that he gets some help if he's ever going to be worth living with. Otherwise get away and stay away from him.

Thank you. I'm so tired and have nothing much to say. Just appreciate your advice. I've asked him to go to counseling with me over the years, and when it got really bad, he read the anger management stuff. Now, he only expresses how much he hates me. Thanks again as I need to do exactly what you're saying - he gets angrier by the day. I thought it was just age, but this is real

PsychoTime · #4 02-27-2011, 11:12 PM

Note all new people who have wandered into the Playground...

This is a con artist named JAY - please ignore him, he is crazy!!!

Dick Tracy · #5 02-28-2011, 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by 1Sunshine

I hesitate to write this because no one will believe me. He came after me tonight in the office and the kitchen, didn't hurt me, but the threat is always there.

Yet to most, I live this perfect life. I just want to be free, but cannot afford to leave. Have to take care of others. Has anyone else felt so trapped?

Came after you with what? His BBC?

Fucktard · #6 02-28-2011, 09:00 PM

I honestly don't think that J and Sunshine are the same person. Sunshine is indeed a wacko, although I will give her some advice. Grab the Golden Retriever and run.

And if you're a rep, even making a low end 40-50K a year in base, you can afford to leave, so do it. Get an attorney, go find an apartment and go. (That's serious response to a serious subject, not to a fake scenario). No one, not even a gimmick, deserves abuse.

Except for Vag. When he steps out of line, I abuse him...but I think he likes it.

Drug Dumper · #7 02-28-2011, 09:10 PM

*yawn*

manny manatee · #8 04-08-2011, 05:57 AM

Fucktard · #9 04-08-2011, 03:29 PM

What's happening Jay? Got a good job yet?

Scarlett · #10 04-08-2011, 04:20 PM

Jay is demented. I don't think Sunshine and Jay are same person. Nonetheless....my advice? GET OUT ASAP! The verbal abuse could potentiate to physical. Your self-esteem is being destroyed, and no one deserves to be treated poorly. You are better than that... so why stay? You will not change him.

GorgeousGAMS · #11 04-08-2011, 07:43 PM

How about this: I don't care IF J and Sunshine ARE the same character. My advice to J would be to get a life. My advice to S would be the same. YOU are a loser!!! Life is too fucking short to waste it on people you hate, being weak and insecure or fear. Tell your "husband" to fuck off, pack up your shit and leave. Do YOUR thing. No one cares about you or what you do. Each person on this Earth only gives a shit about themselve (aside from children and pets). GET a FUCKING clue!!! You are a moron to stay. 'nough said.

Vagitarian · #12 04-08-2011, 07:46 PM

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Originally Posted by GorgeousGAMS

How about this: I don't care IF J and Sunshine ARE the same character. My advice to J would be to get a life. My advice to S would be the same. YOU are a loser!!! Life is too fucking short to waste it on people you hate, being weak and insecure or fear. Tell your "husband" to fuck off, pack up your shit and leave. Do YOUR thing. No one cares about you or what you do. Each person on this Earth only gives a shit about themselve (aside from children and pets). GET a FUCKING clue!!! You are a moron to stay. 'nough said.

I agree, maybe J should tell his husband to fuck off.

libluvsbukkake · #13 04-08-2011, 09:36 PM

Oh my, poor 1 is again resorting to having my posts deleted. We really didn't miss your scam baby doll. Making fun of you was funnnier than you trying to portray a needy victim.