If both parties are mutually on board with this kind of arrangement it's great. It's just not the traditional marriage that most people can handle. Libs and his wife are pretty unusual but it works for them. Vag and his lady seem to be nontraditional as well. The problem is if one of the partners goes outside their agreement, traditional or non traditional, that would be a betrayal. You have to have your rules pretty well defined. There has to be complete honesty and acceptance otherwise big trouble. Affairs behind your partners back can be steamy and exciting though. Many people will justify that kind of behavior but if you can have your partner on board the would be the ideal. I've been on both sides of the cheating fence in my life. When I cheated it was something I justified to myself and in one case hurt an ex very badly when he found out. It also hurt me terribly when another ex cheated on me. We tried to work it out but the element of trust was gone for me. this brings up many interesting points to post about.
Belle, that is the key, honesty. The other night, we watched a porn where five guys were doing this hot Latina girl, and I told my Wife that I would love to give her 2-3 well-built military guys at once, and She was open to it, because it would make me happy too. It's great to have someone that you can totally be yourself with and will not judge you. The last time I saw my Asian honey, I told her that my Wife would love to come and watch us, and She was kind of indignant, which I found odd. Here is a Woman that fucks men that cheat on their wives, (like I used to be) and She doesn't want a Wife watching, even though She admitted that She had Clients that did this in the past. Maybe She did really have feelings for me and would feel weird. Anyway, on our favorite swinging site, we both check out those that contact us and have to agree on compatibility. When we do meet people it's quite a rush to see your partner getting fucked good. I feel that our bond is unbreakable, after going through this. If I am on the road, the rule is, call me first and use a condom. Also, She keeps me so drained, that I may have to up my monthly quantity of Cialis. Belle, you sound a lot like her.
