Hey man, kids come with the territory and I know she's wonderful but didn't she know this when you 1st hooked up? Maybe remind her? And otherwise, I like Belle's suugestion about quitter sex - like mayve a lot of
Libs, as wonderful as she is, maybe u can appeal to her on a 'this came with the territory' and 'you knew this was the case beforehand'. Otherwise I like Belle's suggestion, some quiet sex. maybe just a lot of oral and then slip it in at the end (PI). How about a small stereo in your room so music can drown out the slurping? Also like DD's reminder - this ain't gonna last forever. Tincture of time will eventually cure that one. I was in your situation for years. I understand. Your baby girl is your baby girl.