I wish my manager was prettier. She’s a good amount overweight and really not pretty at all. Still question how she got past the screening process during the interview. Don’t get me wrong, she’s a decent manager and is pretty focused on keeping the team together. DOESNT micromanage much.
Her physical appearance is lacking. I have no desire to sleep with her or anything else.
Cautionary tale. Not a good idea to hook up with your manager.
I did a year ago. During a 2 day field ride. We met up for drinks end of 1st day. And we literally debriefed. Ended up in his room that evening for a little while. He’s technically married but she is a beard obviously. We did have fun together that night. He is very much on the DL. Day 2 was awkward to say the least.
we hooked up a few more times after; mainly at POA and launch mtgs. The late night ‘come to my room’ message. I obliged several times and he even came to my room. We’d fool around, shower together then that was it. We both decided is was time to stop for professional and personal reasons.
pretty sure his wife found out. They are on skids now. He hasn’t hurt my career at all luckily. But that is a rare thing. Best to avoid it. Don’t let a few nights of fun turn into a lifetime of pain.