Ok, god knows how I ended up here, but after reading this I need to comment. Here is reality:
I think the reason pantyhose get a bad rap is becuase of that word: "pantyhose". Most of the world calls them "sheer tights." What's in a name? Indeed.
Ladies, many men are leg men. And most of us like (more like LOVE) nice legs in nylons. The sheer volume of pornography out there based on women and their pantyhose is WAY WAY too much to be a flash in the pan fetish (google it, I dare you!). Older men tend to like garter belts and hose, younger men tend to like women in tights and pantyhose. I'm 40 and right on the line, I like ladies in pantyhose, but stockings have their place in my heart also. It's got a lot to do with being fascinated with something that's off-limits. It makes you sexier. It just does, who cares why?
I'm a 6'2" fairly attractive guy (I think?). I've never had any problems finding a girlfriend when I wanted one. Every woman I've ever been in a relationship with hopped right on board when I told them what I like (and I'm not unusual), the key is to make sure it's still about your woman and not some weird obsession. I'm married now; I buy my wife hose all of the time that I think are sexy, and she often wears them to work,or wears them for me...it's fun.
I guess what I'm getting at is this: a rare chance to know WTF is going through the mind of men. IF you are wearing skirts and nude hose to work, and IF you have a semi-nice pair of legs or better, you are absolutely KILLING at least half of the men you see every single day. I simply cannot overstate this. Watch their eyes. You're making their day because, well, it's nice to see something beautiful I guess. I don't mean any woman any disrespect, and I would NEVER do or say anything not appropriate (because that's not how I was raised), but I'm more than capable of taking you seriously at work, appreciating your contributions, even working FOR you... AND drooling inside over your sexy legs. Sorry if it seems insulting, it's a compliment, believe me.
So if your girlfriends are telling you to bag the nude tights, I suggest you send them this link.