To Vag...since you do not judge


Ft Worth Fox said:
I have to say I'm enjoying the idea of having sex with another man. I'll leave it like that. The weekend was uneventful, the sex was ho hum.
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What do you do or say to your hubby to try to liven things up. Are you simply waiting for him ot figure it out for himself? Some men become complacent as song as they get theirs regularly. Maybe he needs his T level checked. Maybe he needs to be told. Maybe he needs to be shown..... Just remember, he is probably under the impression taht you are satisfied with the the status quo. He won't know any different unless something changes. Be pro-active. Having the affair, fling, one night stand just adds a complicating factor instead of solving a problem.
 
Scarlett said:
Listen - farting, burping, whatever comes with living with someone. That's not the issue. There should be some restraint when possible. If you can make it work by avoidance, you do what you have to do. I would think she would 'listen' to some part of what annoys you. We all have our little pet peeves.

So, maybe this is the next topic on this thread:

What annoys the shit out of you with the opposite sex?
All areas are fair game.
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Score keeping: minor spat turns ugly when "the list" of all past infractions comes out.
 
Scarlett said:
Loud talking. (insecurity)
Spending frivolously to have something just to have it (status)
Laziness!
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I am getting lazier the older that I am getting. I could get used to being taken care of. With women, it's pettiness and always having to be the center of attention. I don't care how hot that they are, the hotter the woman, generally the more shit that you are going to have to put up with. Unless of course you have a lot of money (Trump and Hef come to mind).
 
Vagitarian said:
Being loud - like doing a loud whistle by sticking 2 fingers in each side of your mouth
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I would give ANYTHING if I could do that.

Walking Eagle said:
Having the affair, fling, one night stand just adds a complicating factor instead of solving a problem.
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You got THAT right.

Vagitarian said:
Last night after cooking a great meal, she admonished me for not getting items she told me she needs if she continues to cook here. I told her I'm waiting for room in my budget. She said, "It isn't very much, only $200/$250." I got out the budget and showed her there was $65 left in the 1st week of Feb (which ends tonight) budget,

I said, "We can do it next week but will have to take it out of our Valentine's vacation budget. She says, "No, don't do that, just buy it! I said,"With what? You mean charge it?"
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UT oh, I'm sensing trouble in paradise, Vag.

Things that bother me:

Bragging
Can't dance
Driving too close to the car in front on the interstate
 
Here's what bugs the hell out of me. First of all, I like things in alphabetical order. That goes for CDs (especially CDs), in the fridge, butter is a B and on the top shelf while water is a W on the bottom shelf in front (because after the W comes an A. I always look at a women's car, house and her office to see if it's in alphabetical order. After that comes her purse. I do make an exception - if they leave things sitting on the kitchen counter (like salt and pepper, coffee maker, etc) it doesn't have to be in alphabetical order - just a nice geometric pattern will suffice.

If all that is orderly, then I like them to review their opinions with me before speaking them in public if we're together. When I find a woman who is well organized and doesn't say controversial things or speak out of turn, it really turns me on in a gumsole shoe sort of way.
 
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Dick Tracy said:
Here's what bugs the hell out of me. First of all, I like things in alphabetical order. That goes for CDs (especially CDs), in the fridge, butter is a B and on the top shelf while water is a W on the bottom shelf in front (because after the W comes an A. I always look at a women's car, house and her office to see if it's in alphabetical order. After that comes her purse. I do make an exception - if they leave things sitting on the kitchen counter (like salt and pepper, coffee maker, etc) it doesn't have to be in alphabetical order - just a nice geometric pattern will suffice.

If all that is orderly, then I like them to review their opinions with me before speaking them in public if we're together. When I find a woman who is well organized and doesn't say controversial things or speak out of turn, it really turns me on in a gumsole shoe sort of way.
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So you like subservient women????
Dick - some of this behavior borders on OCD my friend.


I love taking care of a man, love things organized and clean, but also love speaking my mind and not being suppressed or controlled by a man!
What woman 'reviews' opinions with a man beforehand? A moron? lol
 
libluvsbukkake said:
I am getting lazier the older that I am getting. I could get used to being taken care of. With women, it's pettiness and always having to be the center of attention. I don't care how hot that they are, the hotter the woman, generally the more shit that you are going to have to put up with. Unless of course you have a lot of money (Trump and Hef come to mind).
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I disagree...most women who are secure in themselves don't need to be the center of attention Libs. This is a generalization based on personal experience??:rolleyes:
 
Well I'm still thinking about my situation but there is a recent development. I was staying at the same hotel recently on a road trip (it's the place where all the reps from nearby stay) and I danced with him. Twice to a fast song and once to a slow one. My oh my, he certainly wouldn't need to brag. He is definitely packing and it was a very exciting dance. Hmmm, it sure could be fun.
 
Dick Tracy said:
Here's what bugs the hell out of me. First of all, I like things in alphabetical order. That goes for CDs (especially CDs), in the fridge, butter is a B and on the top shelf while water is a W on the bottom shelf in front (because after the W comes an A. I always look at a women's car, house and her office to see if it's in alphabetical order. After that comes her purse. I do make an exception - if they leave things sitting on the kitchen counter (like salt and pepper, coffee maker, etc) it doesn't have to be in alphabetical order - just a nice geometric pattern will suffice.

If all that is orderly, then I like them to review their opinions with me before speaking them in public if we're together. When I find a woman who is well organized and doesn't say controversial things or speak out of turn, it really turns me on in a gumsole shoe sort of way.
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You want them to wear a Burka too?
 
Scarlett said:
I disagree...most women who are secure in themselves don't need to be the center of attention Libs. This is a generalization based on personal experience??:rolleyes:
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Yes, it is sadly. But part of that is on me. I seem to always pick the insecure ones. You can't be married twice with the issues that I deal with, and not look in the mirror to find where a lot of the fault lies. I am no prize and never claimed to be. I am steady, hard-working and expect a woman to be a 50/50 partner. That's why I could never be married to a SAHM (except my Asian honey of course).
 
Self-awareness is good Libs and at least shows vulnerability. Everyone has faults. I never migrated to needy or insecure people. I lose my patience with those types.
 
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