What Happened To The MILF Thread?

Okay, so what would you do if you were me and your husband won't agree to it? He had tons of sexual partners before me and he is not interested. I do not want to lie, but life is short and I'm tired of "denying myself."

 

I would try what my long term girlfriend tried with me. She was pleasuring me and looked up, looked me in the eye and said, "What would you think if I had another playmate down here helping me?" She did that on 2 more occasions and I finally said, "I would love that." So that kicked it all off. And if that doesn't turn him on, you have to decide. I know aht I personally would do. As someone who likes the words of Carl Sagan - here's his take on life (which I agree with):

"I would love to believe that when I die I will live again, that some thinking, feeling, remembering part of me will continue. But much as I want to believe that, and despite the ancient and worldwide cultural traditions that assert an afterlife, I know of nothing to suggest that it is more than wishful thinking. Be grateful every day for the brief but magnificent opportunity that life provides."

 

It sounds sensible on paper but I've brought this up to my husband and he is only open to doing this with another woman and doesn't want me to be with another man. He has ED issues and it doesn't seem fair does it? I'm wiling to try his way but he is not willing for me to have my own pleasure. It's very one sided and I'm sure it is about his insecurity but I'm not looking to fall in love with anyone.

 

Ask him if you can bang another guy; or divorce him and bang the entire world if you like; or get over your obsessively horny behavior with a vibrator or therapy.

Cheating is called cheating for a reason. It's wrong and a horrible way to treat a spouse. If your word and integrity mean anything to you, then you don't cheat. Do the right thing, not what these other scumbags in here tell you to do.

Whether you believe in God or not, I know for sure that karma will get you and it's usually 10x worse than what pain you wrongly brought to another. I've also noticed that the scumbags never seem to connect the two and just feel victimized instead of recalling how many bad things they've done to others and just accepting that they deserved it.

in a nutshell, don't cheat and disrespect your spouse.

 

I wasn't looking to fall in love either but I did. However slight, this IS a risk you will take.

 

Absolutely agree!!!!!

 

Yes - one-sided and due to his ED issues. For us, she wanted to 'try another woman' and she loved it and was pleasured. We spent at least 3 hours in bed with a few sex toys, the tree of us (very naked) and some wonderful wine. One of her boundaries was, she didn't want me penetrating the other woman - so - another guy for her would have to have the same rules to be fair and what's the point? She enjoys the feel and smooth, soft touch of a woman from time to time. I have no interest in the touch of another man. So there's another perspective. Maybe try it with another woman and he will open up. Also, has he sought treatment for his ED? There are remedies from pills to injections to implants. Maybe if he conquered that, he might also open up a bit. For example, you could let him penetrate another woman, then if he liked it - suggest a couple?

 

Depends on whether you're living your life for yourself - or someone else. If a man has ED or isn't satisfying his woman and will not seek treatment - he is clearly living life for himself. You are allowed the same privilege. Life is to be lived - not regretted.

 

tried to PM you but can't figure out how to do it.

 

Seems odd but likely true. Why would they worry about PMs if no one else can read them? Maybe need to find another thread where anon posting is allowed and children aren't up playing doctor?