Love the headboard one where you grab on whatever' grabbable (brass headboards are great!) and the whole thing shakes.
Here's an interesting scenario that sounds fun & reasonable. I ran into a women I had a fling with YEARS ago and we've had a couple of fun evenings (we're both single). Anyway, one night during our afterfuck we were talking about where we'd been, what we'd done and what were some of our most enjoyable sexual experiences. She told me that for awhile, she had a circle of 4 good female friends who were either married of living with someone. The women made a deal. On each man's birthday, one of the women would be 'sent over' with Champagne and a sexy nightgown and have sex with him for the night. That was his birthday present. Over a period of years, everyone got to have sex with someone other than their mate once a year - both the men and the women. They all agreed -once a year only
with the designated partner of the night. It was kept as a fun & honorable thing. It also kept their marriages fresh and fun.
It seems to me like this would be perfect - it isn't really swinging, it certainly wasn't cheating, it was just healthy sex with some variety thrown in and evryone looked forward to a birthday - even the women.
I just thought this might be of interest to some of the conservatives around here - I mean fun is fun and extramarital sex can be funnnnnnnnnn........