To Vag...since you do not judge


Vagitarian said:
Tis board is full of narcissists worrying more about what they don't have instead of being happy with what they do have. Get a grip.

Yep, so full of whining narcissists that you're compelled to visit every day and call childish names................ :cool:
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Vaginitis, haven't you noticed that it is ONLY two of you?

For the record a +50 year old who names himself Vagitarian and tries to make a seventh grade innuendo about almost everything is really in mo position to comment on what is childish or not. Just sayin.

BTW,you drew first blood.;)
 




Poor Flag Avatar Guy, he has really lost it now - His online breakdown is now complete. Funny how he tries to accuse others of "fitting in" while he runs all over this board pissing on everyones leg. I almost feel sorry for the little fella.
 


Scarlett said:
Story....way back I remember having a couple of drinks and this guy I started seeing and I were making out. It got so hot & heavy, that I blurted out..."I just want to f_ _ _ you".

Well, since I usually look and act like a lady, I think I fell off the pedestal he put me on. He was taken back by the verbiage.
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Damn, Scarlett, my pudistal would have immediately gone up. I love a woman who talks like this. A moment like that is when you know it's going to be off the charts great!
 


Scarlett said:
MFAS...true not everyday. People who have affairs get it for the time or moment. It does not LAST. I am not being unreal but speaking to what an affair does. Stop spouting the Christian bullshit. I went to Catholic School through grad school and had enough. I'm a damn giving and kind person and that's what counts. How dare you condemn me and others here. Real Christian-like isn't it honey?
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Yes, as a matter of fact, it is. What's incredible is that you, even with a Catholic School background can't see that. Standing on the authority of Scripture to judge behavior is Christian. Pointing others in the direction of true happiness is Christian.

In your warped view being Christian means not calling sin, sin. Patting people on the head and telling them that anyway they choose to live is OK even if it contributes to sending them straight to Hell. Sounds like you have a major issue with "Catholic guilt", but that still doesn't change anything. Sorry but it doesn't work that way according to the Book! Like God, I am pro-people, but I'm not pro just any behavior they decide they want to engage in. Judging people's behavior is not that difficult, especially when it comes to sex. The Bible is clear.

And please re-read my post and tell me exactly where I condemned anybody. I offered a prescription for what is the most likely to contribute to the greatest and longest lasting sexual satisfaction. That's being condemning, honey?
 


GorgeousGAMS said:
If things were only different, maybe I would have the guts DD has and start again. . . but it is not possible. S T U C K ! !
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Gee thanks, but it didn't take guts -- I had no choice. You have a husband for the insurance and I work a really crappy (and I do mean crappy) job ONLY because of the insurance coverage -- and keep looking. Grass will never grow under my feet. Adn I don't really care if I work until I'm 70 -- I tried the retirement route (although it wasn't my idea) and I found I just HAVE to have a place to go to every day. Keeps my mind churning.
 


GG,

A five-year plan can also put a little bit of spring in your step. About five or six years ago, I decided that I needed to be able to support myself and my children on my own, if need be. It really motivated me. When he's driving me nuts, I think about my plan.

Take it one step at a time. Perhaps you need a different job with better insurance coverage. Perhaps it's time to talk with your doctor and HR director and see about changing the diagnosis code to something more in line with what your insurance company will cover.

Till the soil. Plant your garden. Give it time and attention. Then, when the time is right, make a graceful exit. I sometimes feel like that dude from "The Shawshank Redemption." I'm digging a long tunnel with a tiny pick. But i'll emerge on the other side free and happy. I hope.
 


Drug Dumper said:
Gee thanks, but it didn't take guts -- I had no choice. You have a husband for the insurance and I work a really crappy (and I do mean crappy) job ONLY because of the insurance coverage -- and keep looking. Grass will never grow under my feet. Adn I don't really care if I work until I'm 70 -- I tried the retirement route (although it wasn't my idea) and I found I just HAVE to have a place to go to every day. Keeps my mind churning.
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But I am not upset or unhappy just craving more out of life than what is presently on my plate and I'm old with very little retirement saved because we started over again at age 50 with next to nothing. I do care if I work until I'm 70 and would rather not. . . but you are brave to go it alone. I have been there and done that. It is easier to have someone around the house even if you don't always get along with them. Mr. Gams and I have discussed moving to separate floors and just being roommates. There are many options. I was sick this week and on here way too much bitching about nothing.

RH: I thank you and will remember that movie (one of my favorites BTW). However, I am not unhappy nor am I happy. I just remember and know how great things could be "if" . . . the great word "if", and I'd like to get back everything that was lost to time, hate, the courts and life. I want that place again where things feel new and fun, where there is excitement and passion in all that I do so not a moment is wasted.
 






Vag - four time zones, so ILA could have posted just after midnight. . . I keep forgetting that there is a Mountain time in between Midwest and the Coast. Anyway, it would be outstanding to see him post something positive or start a thread of his own reflective opinions. I am not sure we know what they are, really. MFAS is pretty clear. I still don't know if ILA thinks a fling would be fun or he'd have to go flog himself with briar leaves.
 
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Vagitarian said:
I've posted in every time zone and eveyone has auto converted to Easten standard so no matter how you slice it or dice it, you're an unmarried man up at either 3:52; 2:52 or 1:52 AM posting on a site for people who are discussing affairs. You say you're just giving your opinions and yes, are free to do that but you've been saying and doing the same shit since May, 2009 on this thread. We get it, you think it's wrong. You're just stroking your self dude. Do you think if you keep saying the same repetitive words it will eventually result in popping a nut or something?

What's interesting is that not only is there not a thread for 'The wonders of never having extramatital sex' but you haven't started it and aren't posting on it. If it was as exciting of a topic to most people as this one is, someone would have started one. Tell ya what - I'll start one and let's see how many people find it interesting.

Your kick is criticizing others, nothing else. I've never seem one post by you that was positive.
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Are you really this dense or just desperately trying to make something out of nothing? If you are logged in, the times display at your time zone. Logged out, it's eastern time. So the earliest post here by ILA was at 6:52 eastern, 3:52 in YOUR time zone. You know this just isn't that hard....or that important.
 




Vagitarian said:
Good idea. I noted P Ho's comment on another thread that he still looks down women's blouses. I was thinking about this last night at an Italian restaurant in Pismo Beach w/ my girlfriend. It's Spring break and a red hot mid 20s woman was sitting on a barstool in front of where we were standing. She had a crop top, some really low cut jeans and really showed that ass off well.

I looked, more than once.
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P Ho could not have been any more correct in saying that it cannot be cured.

A delighfully terminal condition.
 


So delightful that even the female gender partakes in 'observing'....does the mind good.
The only difference is that at my age I no longer drool at the youngies.
 


I with you on the drooling part. i don't go for the Ken's. We went to a debutante ball this past weekend and I have to say, just about every man looked handsome -- it's amazing what a good tuxedo will do for a regular looking guy.

And then there was Mr. Dump in his tuxedo -- well, I did drool over THAT.
 








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