To Vag...since you do not judge






Well, how does that change that you talking about the ass you supposedly get makes you the King of Douchbaggery (thanks Slarty, I like that word now, too!). America is right on this one.
 


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How does that change that you talking about the ass you (supposedly) get makes you the King of Douchebaggery (thanks Slarty, I like that word now too)? America is right on this one.
 


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Everyone hates your fucking guts; No one can believe how stupid this twat must be to start this stupid thread; The twat is pathetic and would be better off offing herself. Make it look like an accident so your poor family will at least get the insurance money. Better off that way than with you around, ho!
 


Nice try at deflection pardner. I never said you need to think like me. Not once. I merely judged. See, everyone judges. You judge everyone. You just did it here. I am just not shy about saying I am judging. You however think there is something noble about saying you don't judge even though you judge.

I call it for what it is. She is cheating on her husband and it is immoral. End of story. She looked to you for validation (big surprise given your moral outlook) and you didn't disappoint. Nothing magical or earth shattering.

How you live your life is completely up to you and I would never tell you how to do so.

Love the sinner, hate the sin ;)

Are you gonna eat Vag's man-carpet now?
 


OP here...


I listen and reflect...I do not judge!
Divorce is NOT an option as we all KNOW it destroys families. The man I am loving is an old BF who loved me dearly and I broke his heart before I got married.

Yes, we would be together if we were BOTH single. You don't know my whole story.
Also...yes I am living a farce in terms of y marriage. THAT bothers me.

ILA...you need a good lay...for once.
 


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Few women who would take that vienna sausage ILA has between his legs and be sexually satisfied. His options are limited and that's why he goes on about morality. His wife must pray for that two minutes to be over.
 




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Few women who would take that vienna sausage ILA has between his legs and be sexually satisfied. His options are limited and that's why he goes on about morality. His wife must pray for that two minutes to be over.

What makes you think he lasts 2 minutes?
 





divorce destroys families


There's an old saying among marriage & family counselors:

"The marriage lived but the people died"..........................

Interesting...yes Vag...I am dying on the basis that I have no more excitement and desire. There is no communication and we do little together. I love ILA's comment that he thinks cheating on my husband heals....

WHO said that ILA? I surely did not. I'm in my forties, a very intelligent person and very giving. NO...it is NOT about me. I have given all my life and been selfless. Now I am looking at what I need and am void of. Are you crucifying me for that? Looking at me, most people would think I am the epitomy of a conventional marriage. The best thing I have are my children who are very close to me. OK...so THIS is my so-called sin?

No...I still do not feel guilty and while not in love with my AM...we do love one another like no one else has.
 


Here's another old saying for the guy who has close to 10,000 posts yet accuses me 'not letting something go' (say what?).

ILA, your life revolves around posting, preaching and ramming your far right Christian agena down the throats of others here by posting endless, meaningless, religious fanatacism in order to excuse yourself from being responsible for you and you only. Remember,

He who excuses himself, accuses himself..........

That would be you, amigo!

You're too funny..actually enthralling Vag!

Love,
OP
 


ILA is right. As I said above, what is not moral is not moral if Idiot-tarian would just admit that and say "what I do is by social standards not moral but I like it and my partners are ok with me dipping the wick in 2 pussies two nights in a row" then he'd have more credibility. Trying to deny that something that is obviously not moral just makes you look more stupid. Just own it. Like I said, all (singles) have unmarried sex. But keeping secrets and betrayal is simply breaking vows. Two different subjects.
 


I see this in a simple way....but then I like to get to the point.

I want my husband to treat me with respect as his partner/lover/wife as well as the mother of his children. Should he decide that he wants and desires someone more than me, TELL me, we separate, then he can carry on. The same applies to me. We discussed this before marriage because I have a hard time with lying and cheating and the DISRESPECT for the other person that ensues. And even though I am not religious, I hold my wedding vows sacred because I am a good person and I don't just screw up or disregard a promise that I made to my husband.

So, OP, please think about how your husband would feel if he catches you. Try to imagine your feelings if he cheated first. Don't you think you OWE him the truth and respect that he deserves? Get out of the marriage simply for sake of the children and this man that bores you so much.
 


just wait until judgement day. you prolly wont even be allowed into purgatory, instead you will go straight to hell if you think the fire is bad in california, just wait.
 






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The bottom line is it is Mother's Day and ILA could not stay off this site for one day. Hands down he's the most pathetic person here besides the wife who stays with him.